The Dress
I started the dress hunt with a dreamy, all-lace vintage dress in my mind's eye. I've always loved and been inspired by traditional lace dresses from images of old Spanish weddings and 1920's bridal style, especially when made modern, so finding a dress to hit all those marks would likely take some time. I scoured the internet-- from Etsy searches and every small vintage shop I could think of to larger online secondhand stores. Though the options were plentiful, I wasn't finding the one in my vision, something a little sexy, yet still classy, made from lace and natural fibers. Then enters my in-person search.
I wasn't really aware of the second-hand bridal market that was thankfully beginning to make its way to LA and New York, but after a lucky Google search I came across a shop in my area that offered just that. My family and friends wanted to do a bridal shopping day, so I made an appointment at this secondhand shop. When I walked, my eyes immediately caught one dress in the sea of lace, tulle, sequins, and silk sold by previous brides to the boutique. I tried it on. My mom and sister-in-law were running a little late, so they didn't see the first dress. I started trying on a few more. When they arrived, both of them came in the shop and individually of one another commented on the same dress from the rack and said I had to try it, only to learn I already had without them. Off the rack, the dress fit me like a glove. It hit all the marks. It truly felt like it was designed for me, and the fact that it was secondhand made it all the more perfect. With the dress decided on, it was time to accessorize.