A Slow Wedding Wardrobe: Inspiration for the Natural, Intentional Bride

Choosing a meaningful wedding wardrobe is a central part of any intentional bride’s planning process. If you’re just beginning to plan your wedding or even if you're still in the dreaming process, you’ll be sure to find some inspiration from our founder Michelle’s own celebration of love.

Hey friends, Michelle here. If you’ve been following our blog, you know I recently tied the knot in Ojai, California surrounded by the mountains, the orange blossoms, and 100 of our closest friends and family. I took some film photos of the week to document our time in the Valley of the Moon, which you can see here in our post about Slow Living in Ojai. I was also able to capture some film of my wedding wardrobe, featuring a few pieces I designed for our latest collection Flora y Alma. Now that it’s been a few months, I figured I’d share a little behind-the-scenes look at how I picked each piece of my wedding wardrobe, as well as the inspiration for the jewelry I created to wear with it. I hope you enjoy!

The Dress

I started the dress hunt with a dreamy, all-lace vintage dress in my mind's eye. I've always loved and been inspired by traditional lace dresses from images of old Spanish weddings and 1920's bridal style, especially when made modern, so finding a dress to hit all those marks would likely take some time. I scoured the internet-- from Etsy searches and every small vintage shop I could think of to larger online secondhand stores. Though the options were plentiful, I wasn't finding the one in my vision, something a little sexy, yet still classy, made from lace and natural fibers. Then enters my in-person search.

I wasn't really aware of the second-hand bridal market that was thankfully beginning to make its way to LA and New York, but after a lucky Google search I came across a shop in my area that offered just that. My family and friends wanted to do a bridal shopping day, so I made an appointment at this secondhand shop. When I walked, my eyes immediately caught one dress in the sea of lace, tulle, sequins, and silk sold by previous brides to the boutique. I tried it on. My mom and sister-in-law were running a little late, so they didn't see the first dress. I started trying on a few more. When they arrived, both of them came in the shop and individually of one another commented on the same dress from the rack and said I had to try it, only to learn I already had without them. Off the rack, the dress fit me like a glove. It hit all the marks. It truly felt like it was designed for me, and the fact that it was secondhand made it all the more perfect. With the dress decided on, it was time to accessorize.

The Jewelry

It's funny how a wedding dress sets the tone for the whole event. Having this feminine, lace number immediately had me dreaming of all things classic and romantic-- olive trees, white flowers, the gentle drips of beeswax tapers. I was fortunate enough to have the most beautiful antique engagement ring passed down to me by Mom and then made my wedding band to match it in our essential Córdoba style out of solid gold. To me, our Córdoba ring is the perfect wedding band– powerful in its simplicity, representing the union of two into one, with each metal strand still maintaining its individual character.

From here, I was ready to design earrings and began to create what later became the FLORA set. As I do with most of my jewelry, I started by searching for a material that would inspire the design. It is important for me to know that my materials are ethically sourced, so when I found these stunning, vintage baroque freshwater pearls, I knew they were just the right fit. For the earring itself, I leaned into an elegant petal shape with our signature hammered and matte finish. 

To round out the collection, I knew this occasion was finally the right time to create something special I had always dreamed of making– a modern version of a collar necklace similar to ancient pieces I've seen in museums. I used the same pearl and floral motif combination to create a necklace and bracelet that can each stand alone or be worn as a set with the earrings. With a combination of perfectly imperfect baroque pearls and floral motifs, the FLORA collection offers modern heirlooms to celebrate natural beauty no matter the occasion. Shop the collection below.

The Reception Look

Fortunately, the fun of choosing my wardrobe didn't end with the ceremony. I ended up opting for an all-vintage second look that I could really groove in as there was little more important to me on the day of my wedding than finishing the night one of my favorite things to do with my hubs-- getting down on the dance floor. I knew I needed some extra comfort and was lucky enough to find this stretchy Battenburg lace number, which I paired with Ralph Lauren kitten heels (that I later swapped out for my favorite cowboy boots to suit the theme of our reception venue). Since we were driving in our rented 1973 Mercedes, I added a lace headscarf and cropped wool coat since it was a little chilly at night. I'm still finding myself collecting all the good vintage that can work for different wedding looks, so be sure to check out our latest finds below!

In all, I'd say my top tips for looking for your perfect wedding wardrobe that aligns with your values is to create a vision board or list of what you’re looking for, then explore all of the incredible secondhand and handmade options out there to help make that vision a reality. Get a start looking at the offerings from your favorite vintage sellers (if they don’t offer bridal, ask if they can source custom!), or look through Etsy or secondhand shops in your area. If it's an option, customizing a dress from a thrift find or a family member's old dress is a dream scenario. When accessorizing, the feeling that comes from wearing something made by hand with integrity or heirloom or borrowed piece from someone you love can’t be matched. It’s a simple, ideal way to set the stage for an event that's essence is to celebrate the beauty of deep, human connection.

xx

Michelle

From vintage to heirloom, borrowed to handmade, there are more options than ever to create an intentional wedding wardrobe that is true to you and your values. Our founder Michelle takes us through the journey of creating her own ensembles for her special day, featuring her latest FLORA collection.
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